Embracing Solo Travel Roommate Adventures: 8 Tips for Solo Female Travelers Over 30


If you’re a solo female traveller over 30 (like me), you know that the journey is often about both the destination and the people you meet along the way.

Sometimes, to save costs and enhance the experience, you might find yourself sharing a room with a stranger. This is especially the case on group tours or retreats if you are not in the position to pay for a private room option (if there is one) or if you opt to stay in hostels from time to time.

Yes, this can come with trepidations if you are not used to this situation, and I think as the older you get you value your own space more too.

But fear not! Here are some invaluable tips on how to make room-sharing a delightful part of your solo travel adventure. And if you are like me you will form enduring friendships and share some great laughs too!






Top tips for sharing a room as a solo female traveler:



  1. Communicate Before You Go

One of the keys to successful room sharing is communication. Reach out to your future roommate ahead of time, introduce yourself, and discuss your travel preferences. Knowing each other’s expectations and habits can help avoid surprises when you finally meet. WhatApp is a great option for this.


  1. Create a Roommate “Agreement”

Consider discussing a roommate agreement that covers basic ground rules like quiet hours, shower schedules, and privacy needs. This simple conversation can help set expectations and ensure a comfortable cohabitation, and make sure you are both on the same page.


  1. Pack Earplugs and an Eye Mask

Traveling with someone you’ve just met means adjusting to their sleep patterns. Packing earplugs and an eye mask can help you get a good night’s sleep, even if your roommate has different habits.


  1. Embrace Solo Time

While sharing a room is an opportunity to connect, it’s essential to balance social interactions with personal time. Allocate some moments to enjoy your own space, read a book, or unwind in solitude.


  1. Be Open-Minded


Approach room-sharing with an open heart and an open mind. Remember that your roommate is also stepping out of their comfort zone, and a friendly attitude can go a long way in fostering a positive atmosphere.


  1. Use Technology Wisely

Utilize travel apps and websites to find compatible roommates in advance. Many solo travelers use platforms specifically designed for this purpose, ensuring a better chance of finding someone with similar interests and habits. Remember to be mindful at night and reduce screen light or put your earphones in if listening or watching on a device if your roommate is sleeping.


  1. Share the Responsibilities

Cooperate when it comes to room maintenance. A little teamwork goes a long way in keeping your shared space tidy and organized, enhancing the overall experience for both of you. Or mark your own space in the room with each other  (especially toiletries)


  1. Embrace the Adventure

Lastly, remember that sharing a room with a stranger can lead to unexpected friendships and unforgettable memories. Approach the experience as an adventure, and you may just discover a travel buddy for life!





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Embrace the Journey.


As a solo female traveler over 30, you have a unique opportunity to explore the world and connect with like-minded women.

By following these tips and embracing the adventure, sharing a room with a stranger can become a highlight of your journey, and not a hindrance.

Though it is not for everyone, but give it a go.

Safe travels and may your wanderlust lead you to extraordinary experiences!


Want to join us on a adventure?

At Wanderlust Solo Women Tours, we celebrate the spirit of exploration and support among women travelers. Whether you’re seeking a room-sharing adventure or a solo escape, our tours and retreats are designed to cater to the diverse needs of women aged 30 and above. Join us in discovering the world, one amazing destination at a time.



Gina Cambridge

Gina Cambridge

Your host and founder of Wanderlust Solo Women Tours

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